What Is Tantric Massage?
Tantra massage is offered from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body gets involved and erogenous zones can also be touched. A tantra massage takes place on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection between massage giver and receiver.
Tantric Massage is all about Loving touch
Tantra massage is given from the heart. The majority of touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is actually love that touches. The recipient is likewise present, and gets active and likewise feels (ultimately) from the heart.
Filled with attention and presence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch full of attention and existence. Don't look around or being hectic with something else, no, your full attention is on offering or getting the massage. Tantra massage is not about routine, set patterns are really out of the question.
A tantric massage isn't really about an established outcome
A tantric massage will always be different. It is not the strategy or the desired series of massaging that is essential, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be precisely that what is needed.
Tantric massages for that reason often take an extremely unexpected course. Whatever fits into a larger whole. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "great", ending in happiness. A "failed" massage can be the primary step in an excellent advancement.
Ways to get the very best from your tantric massage
Constantly with regard to limitations
We understood it for a long time, of course, but considering that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have actually shown up worldwide of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who require their own sexual pleasure/lust on "customers". Naturally, this has little to do with tantric massage. The security of both provider and receiver constantly need to be ensured. Loving attunement always comes.
Set clear borders beforehand
Every individual (other than when you are enlightened) has his limits. This is human and is also essential (check out the article on guarding boundaries. Think in advance (both as provider and receiver) what your limitations are. Ensure there is a proper consumption, and a good preparation (also with your lover/massage partner). Set clear boundaries in advance: about psychological limits, and also make sure for clarity about physical boundaries. It is a misconception that a tantric massage must always be naked, nonsense. With clothing on is also completely okay (however hard to work with oil then). It is also a misunderstanding that a tantric massage must be focussed on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), rubbish too. Personally, we have given/received numerous tantric massages just on the head. Likewise, in addition, actually each cell is sensuous, but you will be impressed.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let flow easily
Activating and freeing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erogenous zones can likewise be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of basic/ sexual/ emotional/ passionate/ love/ production/ intuitive energy.
Focused on the natural ecstatic state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage is part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a really practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life aimed at growing in love and consciousness. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is one of them.
Normally leading to a fantastic physical, psychological well-being
Tantra helps you to become more unwinded, more vibrant, more energetic, more loving therefore much more. Actually, you "learn" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. Since this is exactly what occurs often: the recipient is enjoying it! Taking pleasure in is completely allowed! A tantra massage is usually nice, sometimes tasty. We, therefore, invite you to completely enjoy receiving ánd offering a tantric massage. Feel, utilize your senses. Hear, smell, taste, feel and show that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are numerous kinds of massage. Obviously, all massages have particular practices and strategies in typical. Yet there is a huge difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (targeted at relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Sexual massage (focused on enjoyment complete satisfaction).
* (Body) treatment (aimed at healing).
Well since you are actually extremely energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sensual massage either. It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, but therapy is an occupation apart.
The basics of tantric massage.
For an in-depth description, see the article on the essentials of tantric massage. In summary, the following fundamentals stand apart:
Tantra massage tips-- before you start
* Produce a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer great conditions (physically, but also mentally).
* Explain agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage pointers-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is demand complimentary, do not press or force anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the entire body.
* Do not just utilize your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* As soon as in a while ... do nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Use your senses.
* Provide feedback (enjoyment sounds?).
* Integrate in integration (rest) moments.
Some masseurs are more/mainly concerned with what they themselves find pleasant, fun, preferable. Though a tantra massage is not a work job, so as a provider you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. So forget your own "needs", remain away from your very own concerns and above all ... do not attempt to require anything. Nothing has to be done, absolutely nothing is required! Again, don't attempt to impose anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to exactly what the recipient requirements. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Trust in love. Perhaps you are disappointed when somebody goes to sleep. You may not be waiting for a psychological cry, however a tantric massage has no goal. No desired outcome. It is what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage suggestions-- after the massage.
* Take enough time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Take some time to exchange your experiences.
* Realize that a tantric massage can have a result for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage ideas (insights/rules).
* Don't work to a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a pleased ending massage? Yes it can be, it typically is however there is no pressure for you to perform, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Respect limits, set clear borders ahead of time. Our masseuses are primarily extremely open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the dreams of the recipient in mind, of course. Know that it can turn dig this out differently.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being excited is normal and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are crucial! A lot can turn up.
* Look out to renewed freezing minutes. Avoid limits from being crossed again.
* Action by action ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. But beware: no sex! Practice makes ideal. Taking pleasure in the restored balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Give feedback (e.g. enjoyment sounds) and supply combination minutes (just doing nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual fulfillment, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage take place?
Do not discharge, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we imply don't hurry to the weather ending, hold it, remain in the minute, let that sexual energy construct and flood your entire body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Gives peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it ends up being peaceful in your head (in some cases totally empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of incredibly flowing life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential healing effect. Even though tantra massage is not the very same as recovery, this release might heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more caring, you learn exactly what it resembles to like yourself. You experience that everything, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. Which provides a wonderfully liberating and deeply pleased sensation.
You will feel comfy in your body. The combination of relaxation and a lot of energy suggests that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In short, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Loaded with attention and existence.
* The whole body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without standard type, without predefined outcome.
* With respect to (shared) limits.
* Develops a (heart) connection between the provider and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, thrilled state of being of the recipient.
* Usually resulting in a fantastic physical, psychological wellness (of both).